When Words Fall Away: Understanding Behaviors and What Your Loved One Might Be Trying to Tell You

Caring for someone experiencing memory changes can bring moments of confusion and overwhelm. A once gentle loved one may become unexpectedly irritable, or someone who used to sleep peacefully through the night might now pace or call out. While these shifts can feel startling, they are more common than you might realize.

Most individuals living with dementia will experience changes in behavior over time. In the beginning, this might look like trouble focusing or feeling anxious or sad. As time goes on, other changes may appear, such as sleep disturbances, emotional distress, or believing or sensing things that aren't there—what we call delusions or hallucinations.

While these behaviors can be challenging, they often serve a deeper purpose.

At Geriatric Care Solutions, we remind families that every behavior is a form of communication. When words no longer come easily, actions step in to fill the gap.

Imagine this: Your loved one refuses to get dressed in the morning. It may seem like resistance or defiance—but it might be something as simple (and painful) as arthritis making it hard to move. They may not be able to say, “My shoulder hurts,” so instead, they push away the sweater or swat at a helping hand. It’s their way of saying, “This is hard for me.”

By viewing behaviors through a lens of compassion and curiosity, we can better support the people we care about.

Here are a few gentle reminders:

• Pause and observe: What might they be feeling? Is there a physical discomfort or unmet need?

• Stay calm and reassuring: A soft voice and kind presence go a long way.

• Be flexible: If something’s not working, try a different approach. It’s okay to pivot.

Caring for someone with memory changes isn’t always easy—but you don’t have to do it alone. At Geriatric Care Solutions, we walk this path with you, offering support, understanding, and care that never grows old.

If you ever need a listening ear or a helping hand, we’re here for you.

At Geriatric Care Solutions, we are committed to offering tailored in-home care that addresses these challenges effectively. If you suspect that your loved one is struggling with judgment-related issues, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Contact us at 1-888-896-8275 or email ask@gcsolution.com for a consultation.

Together, we can ensure that your loved ones receive the compassionate care and assistance they need, maintaining their quality of life and independence in the comfort of their own homes.